I'm not a narcissist

People may see me cute, nice, friendly, charming and handsome. But that doesn't mean I'm a narcissist, right?

I have this friend of mine in my friendster account, who commented on my profile that says "grabe yuri ah.... ala narcisso kana... nagulat ako kung anu yun watch my video na naka post sa bulletin, yun pla tlgang puro ikaw yun..., aba mhal na mhal tlga yun sarili, (. . .) nakakaloko tlga hahaha... yun lang namn...,"

After I've read this message, of course I respond & gave her a feedback. I tried not be so hot headed. I just said "I don't think so and with your pre judgment I don't think you really understand my video in youtube because it has a story".

And she didn't reply to my message. At the back of my mind, the thing that bugs me is the narcissism idea. Honestly, I even tried to looked on my dictionary to double-checked the meaning I knew.

The dictionary gave me the meaning "self-love".

Yes, I love myself. Why? becauseI love to look good. Clean looks and well-groomed. But that's not the only thing I'm up to.

It's just that I ALSO should care for myself first. All the way natural, beautiful inside and out, and has intelligence.

I do believe that people should stop focusing on looks SO MUCH. There is much more in this world. A lot more. Don't get me wrong, looks are important. Like other people always told me, beauty may make people come, but it is your personality and intelligence that makes them stay.

But other people might say and sized me up, like I was just doing this for attention and for short fame that maybe I probably think of getting somewhere. LOL. That's sick!